It’s ok to turn off sometimes

Nine times out of ten, I’m in full agreement with whatever my friend Dan Martell has to say. He know his shit. But I had to call out something in a recent post of his and share my own perspective. In his post Dan lists things founders shouldn’t skimp on, stating, as an example, that founders don’t have time to do laundry:

As the leader of a company, your time is at a premium. As Jason Cohen says, “your time is worth $1000 an hour, and you should act accordingly”. Your focus should be on activities that propel your business and your brand forward.

For example, should you really be spending two hours every weekend doing laundry when you could pay someone else to take the task off your plate? Understand that paying for what you used to consider an indulgence might now be an essential in your new reality as a founder“.

There’s no question that time is the scarcest resource we have and that founders have huge demands placed on their time.  But I actually think it’s dangerous to engineer our lives so that we are always on, always being productive. I see two issues with this mentality:

First, we are all human. You cannot go full throttle 24/7 for very long. Too many times I have seen founders push, push, push telling themselves they will soon exit and won’t need to do this anymore. Unfortunately, most startups don’t succeed and this approach of short term pushing can only lead to short term mediocre exits.

Good things take time. FreshBooks, for example, is over nine years old. And we are just getting started. I’ll bet the company would not be around today if the founders did not take time to recharge. Long term thinking builds big, meaningful  companies.

My other issue is also related to the point about us all being human. I think it’s good for us to do menial, low value tasks like laundry. It allows us to unplug and it keeps us grounded. If you think you’re above doing laundry that can cause you to lose perspective.

Now, I happen to know that Dan intends to build a large, meaningful company with Clarity. After all he has patented the “workation” in order to keep charged up.

But if the story of Jody Sherman tells us anything, it should reinforce the importance of taking time off, destressing and recharging. Do laundry. Take naps. Exercise regularly. Go easy on the caffeine. And make sure you have people you can talk to about everything you’re going through as a founder.

And since I’m writing this on a Sunday, I’m going to take my own advice right now…

  • http://twitter.com/phswiss Philip Schweizer

    Hey Mark – Very good post. Indeed if I am too tired (out) my idea flow slows down. What is crucial though from my point of view for someone working in a startup (CEO or employee) is to choose the right moment to speed up fully and when the moment is there to take a few days off.

  • http://www.hypedsound.com/ jonathanjaeger

    I think spending time unwinding is critical, but having a virtual assistant to do administrative, time-intensive tasks or paying a few dollars more per week for convenience (e.g. laundry, groceries) could definitely be worth it. Spend your time unwinding on the things you like to do or the menial tasks that you like better. I enjoy washing dishes but hate going to do my laundry.

    • http://startupcfo.ca/ Mark MacLeod

      Fair enough. I agree with that. As long as you’re not engineering your life to be always “on” which was my concern from Dan’s post

      • http://www.hypedsound.com/ jonathanjaeger

        Yeah, and sometimes it’s a little obsessive if you engineer your life for the sake of engineering your life. And I still do my own laundry :)

  • http://twitter.com/danmartell Dan Martell

    Mark, I totally agree with you and I think we’re arguing for the same thing..

    Here’s my personal philosophy on work-life balance.

    I dont believe in it.

    I could write a whole post on that part .. but at a high-level, it’s based on a fundamental belief that I only do one of two things with my time.

    1) Hangout w/ family & friends … OR
    2) Work on http://clarity.fm (have that time is thinking and talking about it, not in front of a keyboard).

    That is it really. If it doesn’t improve either one of those areas of my life – I don’t do it, I outsource it, or just say no.

    Take today for instance. (very typical weekend).

    7AM – Wake up with Max + quick workout

    8:30AM – 11AM – Operations for Clarity (hate this stuff .. but needs to be done)

    11AM – 1PM – Hungout with one of my best friends talking about our businesses + kids
    https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152589067285117&set=a.14532850116.72310.829175116&type=1

    1PM – 3PM – I went offroading w/ @renee_warren (the love of my life)!
    http://instagram.com/p/WZ66U6EHNW/
    - It was like a mini-date, we talked about our goals & passions (i.e. Max + our companies)

    3PM – 7:30PM (Now) – I’m working on new designs for Clarity V2 while Renee takes care of Max (because yesterday I looked after him so she could get caughtup on her work)

    7:30PM – 9PM – Two friends and their familes are coming over to talk and hangout in the hot tub (yes, they both have companies).

    9PM – Put Max to bed and spend an hour outlining my week (I always do this the night before).

    So .. my2cents. Work hard, play hard. Manage your energy, not your time and be sure to measure if you’re making progress (in both personal, and business). If you’re not, re-asses and adjust.

    —-

    Also, I will say this. I don’t watch sports or play video games. I do binge watch TV shows that I buy on iTunes, but for the most part I’m thinking or working on my company, or spending quality time with my family.

    You’re absolutely right, you can’t got 100% all the time .. your brain doesn’t work like that. You need to stop, re-charge and ramp up. I’m absolutely fortunate that I’m an extrovert and talking with folks about business pumps me up! (hence why I’ve completed 800+ calls on Clarity).

    So know yourself .. whatever you do to re-charge, do it.

    My only suggestion if you can, weave your life in & around your passions, edit who you spend time with (energy givers only, no energy suckers) and don’t forget if your personal life isn’t good – stop and fix that, business success without that doesn’t mean shit.

    Thanks for the mentions on a Sunday! :)

    Miss you.

    • http://startupcfo.ca/ Mark MacLeod

      Hey Dan,

      Awesome stuff. Glad you mentioned the extrovert piece because as I read your day, it feels pretty “on” to me. But I am much more on the introvert side.

      If it works for you, that’s all that matters. For me, I truly have days that have are not subject to progress measures. For me today was very different:

      6:30 wake up & chill

      Breakfast with the family & read (I don’t really read fiction but this was not directly a business book).

      Played football in the basement with my boy

      Lunch

      Thought about your post and banged out this one.

      Went tobogganing with the kids

      Now. Time for a beer. My turn to cook dinner. Always a scary proposition.

      I read a great book on introverts called “Quiet”. The author clearly outlines that extroverts do get energized from being with other people. So, I have no doubt your schedule works for you – which is great.

      Finally +1 on having a work plan the night before. I do the same.

      Best,
      mark

      • http://startupnorth.ca Jevon

        I have not been invited in to @danmartell:disqus ‘s hot tub yet, have you @startupcfo:disqus ?

        • http://startupcfo.ca/ Mark MacLeod

          I don’t dip and tell…

        • http://twitter.com/Renee_Warren Renée Warren

          Come over anytime Jevon!